❌ Do not say, “I am the man; you have no say, and you may not question or discuss matters with me.”
Shaykh Jamāl ibn Furayḥān Al-Ḥārithī (may Allāh have mercy on him) said:
O Husband! Be humble toward your wife, and do not act arrogantly over her under the pretext of your authority (qiwāmah). You are indeed the man—there is no doubt about that—but do not try to affirm your manhood by dominating her, belittling…
“Abdullāh Learns to Say Salaam”
English Reading Practice
Level 1, Book 1
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Recommended Method For Learning Tajweed for Those Without a Teacher
Question: If a teacher is not available [to teach me how to recite the Qur’ān], which Qur'ān reciter do you advise me to listen to?
Sheikh Najeeb Ash-Shar’abi ḥafidhahullāh:
ʿAlī Al-Ḥudhayfī.
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4. His statement: “They used to go out at night, disguised, and perform ṭawāf with the men.”
This shows that they delayed their ṭawāf until night for the sake of greater concealment.
5. His statement: “When they entered the House, they would stand until the men exited.”
Meaning, the men were required to leave before the women entered the Ka‘bah.
Further evidence for the prohibition of freemixing specifically during ṭawāf and sa‘yi is found in the ḥadīth of Umm Salamah (may Allāh be pleased with her),…
The Ruling on Freemixing and the Refutation of the Claim that It Is Permissible
Question: How should we respond to the claim that “freemixing between men and women exists outside the home when going out, and in Al-Masjid Al-Ḥarām), etc., and therefore is not truly prohibited”?
And to the argument of one who says: “The Prophet ﷺ only forbade khalwah or a certain type of freemixing under specific circumstances,…
Validity of Congregational Prayer for Women in a Detached Prayer Hall
Question: The masjid I attend consists of two separate buildings—one for men and one for women. Between these two buildings is a house owned and rented out by the masjid. The women follow the imam only through the loudspeaker system in their building; however, the sound occasionally cuts off, which interrupts their connection to the prayer. Is…
Ruling on Monetary Gifts Exchanged Among Women After Childbirth
Question: Some women give money to another woman when she gives birth — an amount referred to as ḥummādah or ghuddāyah. Later, when that woman gives birth, they return a larger amount, such as 500 or 1000 (currency units), saying: “It would be improper to return the same amount.” Does this practice involve ribā?
Sheikh Najeeb Ash-Shar’abi…
Questioner: May Allāh reward you. Some animals have specific names on land, such as sea pig, sea dog, sea donkey...
Shaykh Uthaymeen rahimahullah:
...Yes, and the sea-girl (mermaid). Yes, there exists a fish in the form of a female.
The question...?
Questioner: What is their ruling?
Sheikh: Yes, everything is permissible to eat, even the sea-human. If you encounter one—a man, haha—yes, all of it is Halal. Do not worry; say Bismillāh.
Questioner:
Haha, okay.
Are ‘Mermaids’ Halāl?
Question: Virtuous Shaykh, may Allāh grant you success:
Some marine specialists mention that there is a type of fish in the sea whose head resembles that of a woman, having hair and a face like that of a woman. Is it permissible to eat it? It is referred to as a ‘mermaid.’
Sheikh Salih Al-Fawzān ḥafidhahullāh:
There exists a sea creature resembling a human, known as ‘insān Al-baḥr’ (the…
A Woman’s ‘Awrah in the Presence of Other Women
Question: What is the extent of a woman’s ‘awrah (the parts of the body that must be covered) in the presence of another woman?
Sheikh Najeeb Ash-Shar’abi ḥafidhahullāh:
A woman’s ‘awrah in relation to another woman is that which is customarily uncovered in the presence of her maḥram men — namely, the areas of adornment — as the Almighty said:
“And they should not…
1987), from the narrations of Muʿādh ibn Jabal and Abū Ad-Dardā’ (may Allāh be pleased with them both)].
It is also advisable to read the book Al-Jawāb Al-Kāfī liman Sa’ala ʿan Ad-Dawā’ Ash-Shāfī, also known as Ad-Dā’ wa Ad-Dawā’, by the eminent scholar Ibn Al-Qayyim (may Allāh have mercy on him). He therein prescribes the cure for the ailment of passionate love (ʿishq) and details the effects and consequences of sins — and he did so with excellence and great benefit, may Allāh have mercy upon…
Overcoming Lesbianism (Sihāq)
Question: A sister seeks advice concerning the matter of romantic affection between girls, which has become widespread in recent times.
She also inquires: what is the ruling and the punishment for committing this sin (lesbian acts)?
And how may one repent? For she repents, yet returns to the sin repeatedly, and seeks a means to be rid of it completely.
They both regret their…
’Awrah of a woman Infront of Ajānib (strange men)
According to the stronger opinion, a woman’s `‘Awrah in this case includes her entire body, as well as her face and hands.
Narrated ’Abdullāh: that the Prophet ﷺ said:
((الْمَرْأَةُ عَوْرَةٌ فَإِذَا خَرَجَتِ اسْتَشْرَفَهَا الشَّيْطَانُ))
“The woman is Awrah, so when she goes out, the Shaitan seeks to tempt her.”
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NOTE 1:…
Is it permissible for a woman to style her hair in a high bun (camel hump) while at home?
Sheikh Najeeb Ash-Shar’abi ḥafidhahullāh:
She should not do this, neither inside the house nor outside, so as not to resemble those about whom the Prophet ﷺ said:
((نساء كاسيات عاريات مميلات، مائلات رءوسهن كأسنمة البخت المائلة، لا يدخلن الجنة ولا يجدن ريحها، وإن ريحها ليوجد من مسيرة كذا وكذا)).
“Women who are clothed yet…
Ruling on Accompanying Female Relatives Who Do Not Observe Proper Modesty
Question: My female relatives are not properly practicing, such as my aunt, and also my non-Muslim mother. They uncover their faces and even go further in tabarruj, such as wearing perfume, makeup, and certain types of clothing. Is it Haram for me to go out with them—for example, to have a meal together or to travel with them in a car—on the…
Is it permissible for a woman to pray in the presence of strange men?
Sheikh Najeeb Ash-Shar’abi ḥafidhahullāh said:
If she is forced to pray in a place outside her home, the home of a relative, or the home of a female companion, she should pray in a location where strange men cannot see her. If it is unavoidable to pray in a place where strange men can see her, she must then be fully covered so that nothing of…
The Obligation of a Wife to Show Kindness to Her Husband’s Family
Question: Is a married woman at fault if she does not treat her husband’s family kindly?
Is she obligated to show kindness and assist them in their tasks, or is it permissible for her to use cunning or avoidance to evade such duties? Does she also have the right to refuse any request from her husband’s family to perform an act of kindness, similar…
In which cases is the full mahr due to a woman?
Sheikh Najeeb Ash-Shar’abi ḥafidhahullāh:
A woman is entitled to the full agreed-upon dower (mahr musammā) or the dower of equivalent value (mahr al-mithl) if it was not specified, in two situations:
1⃣. Upon consummation of the marriage:
Allāh, the Exalted, says: “And if you intend to exchange one wife for another and you have given one of them a qintār (a heap of…
Ruling on the White Bridal Dress
Question: What is the ruling on a woman wearing the well-known white gown (wedding dress) on her wedding day?
Sheikh Najeeb Ash-Shar’abi ḥafidhahullāh:
This matter involves several potential prohibitions, and it is only permissible if these are avoided:
1⃣. Imitation of disbelievers or immoral women:
The Prophet ﷺ said: “Be different from the polytheists.” [Agreed upon —…
Is a Husband Required to Provide Hajj for His Wife?
Sheikh Ibn Baz rahimahullah said:
He is not obligated. The obligation of Hajj is upon the wife herself if she is able. The husband’s ability does not make Hajj obligatory for her if she is unable. Likewise, it is not obligatory upon the husband to perform Hajj on her behalf.
However, if the husband chooses to do so and arranges Hajj for her, this is considered…
A Husband’s Financial Obligations Toward His Wife
Question: Is a husband required to pay any kind of expiation (kaffārah) on behalf of his wife if she does not possess wealth of her own?
And what are his financial responsibilities toward his wife?
Are internet access and a mobile phone considered obligatory for him to provide in this era?
Sheikh Najeeb Ash-Shar’abi ḥafidhahullāh:
A husband is not required to pay…
Broadcasting the Imam for Women’s Prayer Areas
Question: Is it permissible to set up a screen for the imam so that women in their separate prayer area (not inside the masjid, but in another building) can follow the prayer — if the electricity were to go out, would this be allowed so that they could continue following the imam?
Sheikh Najeeb Ash-Shar’abi ḥafidhahullāh:
Tasweer is forbidden...
It is not…
Don't Be Overly Sensitive!
Whoever lives among people must learn to endure their harm; for one who is overly sensitive to every fault, and abandons his Muslim brother for the slightest reason, will find it impossible to coexist with others.
As the poet said:
If you reproach your brother for every shortcoming,
You will never find one whom you do not reproach.
Live alone then, or preserve your bond with your…
Is it permissible for a woman to visit an elderly male patient?
Sheikh Najeeb Ash-Shar’abi ḥafidhahullāh:
Yes, it is permissible if she is accompanied by her husband. However, she should not shake his hand, reveal any part of her ‘awrah in his presence, speak in a flirtatious or submissive manner, and she should lower her gaze.
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The Ruling on Wearing Engagement Rings During the Wedding Ceremony
Sheikh Najeeb Ash-Shar’abi ḥafidhahullāh:
It is prohibited for several reasons:
First: Wearing the ring resembles the practices of disbelievers, as it is taken from Christian traditions. I have an audio explanation detailing the ruling on wearing a ring, which can be found on the channel.
Second: It may be associated with a belief that has a form…