“Some brothers have lost hope in marrying sisters who were raised in the West, so they seek marriage with sisters from Muslim countries overseas and then bring them to live in the West. What is your advice regarding this?”
The Shaykh hafidhahullah gave an answer similar to this.
#Support_Line
On occasion, I may use this platform to assist trusted brothers in their search for marriage. While this may not be the primary route to marriage, it serves as a support line for ikhwah.
Why are you doing this?
{كذلك كنتم من قبل فمن الله عليكم}
I was once in that position myself and understand how it feels, so if I am able to help my brothers in any way, I am happy to offer my assistance.
How it…
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Alhamdulillah, we have been able to expand the masjid by securing the downstairs area for the sisters. May Allah reward everyone who has contributed and supported this effort, and may He place barakah in it and make it a means of benefit for the community.
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Masjid As-Sahabah
295-297 Haggerston Rd
London E8 4EN
🌐 masjidsahabah.org
Question:
May Allah reward you with goodness, O our Shaykh. Is there any advice you could give to parents, especially mothers, who have children with illnesses or disabilities, such as children with autism? Some of them may find it difficult to accept what Allah has decreed for them. They may feel sad and struggle to be content with what Allah has written for them. What advice and guidance would you give…
They touched.
They kissed.
They hugged.
They crossed boundaries.
They did almost everything they knew was Ḥarām.
They called it “love.”
Then they got married…
And suddenly, things started going south.
He cheats.
She cheats.
Romance disappears.
Trust is destroyed.
Arguments become normal.
Chaos enters the home.
Eventually…
Divorce.
Then they come online and write long threads, diaries, podcasts and essays…
Advice is often cheapest when it is simply listened to. Experience can be a very expensive teacher!
Sometimes, sincere advice is given out of genuine concern. You can either take the advice and benefit from it, or dismiss it and wait until experience teaches you the lesson.
Example 1:
“Auntie, don’t display pictures of all your achievements on social media. You risk exposing yourself and your family to the evil…
كشف الوعثاء بزجر الخبثاء الداعين إلى مساواة الرجال بالنساء وإلغاء فوارق الأنثى
‘Dispelling the Hardship by Rebuking the Wicked: Those Who Call to Making Equal Men with Women and Abolishing the Innate Female Differences’
This book by our beloved Shaykh, al-ʿAllāmah Yaḥyā al-Ḥajūrī—may Allāh preserve him—is an excellent refutation of modern-day feminism.
It explores the evidences clarifying the inherent differences between men and women in light of the Sharīʿah, presenting the Islamic paradigm…
Answered by our Shaykh, the ʿAllāmah, the Sincere Advisor, Abū ʿAbdir-Raḥmān Yaḥyā bin ʿAlī al-Ḥajūrī—may Allāh preserve him.
Question:
What are the characteristics of a righteous woman?
Answer:
A righteous woman is a:
✨ Steadfast Muslim woman.
✨ A student of knowledge who learns her religion and acts upon it.
✨ Dutiful to her parents.
✨ A cultivator/educator to her children.
✨ Obedient to her husband in…
Clarification Regarding the Sisters’ Area
We would like to clarify the current arrangements regarding the area downstairs that has been used for sisters.
The downstairs section does not belong to Masjid As-Sahabah at present. It has been a rented space that we have been using temporarily to accommodate our sisters.
Therefore, at this stage, the masjid does not have a designated sisters’ section.
In shā’ Allāh,…
This poem may be of benefit to other sisters and help them reflect.
A girl before Islam
A girl before Islam, taught to seek validation from a man.
Make sure you look pretty and smell nice, then look in the mirror, will this suffice?
Post yourself on the Internet, watch and see how many likes it will get.
Is my hair lovely, neat and shiny?my clothes feminine, attractive and tidy?
When he sees me looking…
Fajr -> 5:15
Isha -> 9:45
Important Notes:
• Shaykh Daghash Al-‘Ajmi ḥafidhahullāh will deliver today’s khuṭbah.
• Today’s khuṭbah is open to both brothers and sisters. Sisters will be accommodated downstairs, and their doors will be open from 12:00 onwards.
• Jumu’ah khutbah starts at 1:20.
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Masjid As-Sahabah
295-297 Haggerston
London E8 4EN
🌐 masjidsahabah.org
Tonight’s lecture with Shaykh Dagash Al-Ajmi حفظه الله is hosted by our brothers at Masjid Muqbil.
📍 Location:
Hatch End High School
Headstone Lane
HA3 6NR
▪️ Open to brothers and sisters
Please share and encourage others to attend.
I came across your recent post on Women Benefit about culture and marriage https://t.me/womensbenefits/1915.
I agreed with much of what was said, but I wanted to anonymously share another perspective that I think is sometimes overlooked, particularly for sisters navigating this situation with their families. I wrote it in the form of a short poem.
May Allah reward you for your efforts and make our affairs easy,…
We review many profiles daily. We respect everyone’s right to list their requirements and preferences, but we are noticing a deeply concerning issue. We see many profiles stating: “My parents only wish for me to marry within my own ethnicity,” or “My parents don’t want me to engage in polygyny” and when some individuals expand on their preferences they only include their own ethnicity plus white or Arab backgrounds.…
