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If you truly want reconciliation, your words must carry it, your actions must embody it, and your sacrifices must authenticate it. Otherwise it remains what it has always been: a claim on the tongue, contradicted by the very tongue that makes it.
So before concluding that the other person doesn't want reconciliation, turn the mirror on yourself first, and ask the harder question:
Have my own words, attitudes, and…
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Part 2: The Reality of Reconciliation
بســـم اللــه الرحــمــن الـرحـــيــم
In the previous article, we established a foundational principle: reconciliation cannot occur unless both parties genuinely desire it.
But this raises a sharper question:
What does it actually mean to desire reconciliation?
Is it enough to utter the words "I want reconciliation" or "I want peace"?
No. Not even close.
Reconciliation…
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Part 1: The Forgotten Condition of Reconciliation
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Conflict resolution is a discipline every believer—brother and sister alike—must learn, refine, and practice across a lifetime.
But before that discipline can even be applied, one question must be settled first, whether the conflict is marital or fraternal:
Does the other party actually want reconciliation?
If the answer is…
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Requirements in a spouse:
- Someone who loves Allah ﷻ and my beloved Prophet Muhammad ﷺ more than herself and anything else in this world.
- Someone who lives for the sake of Allah according to the Qur'an and Sunnah upon the understanding of the Salaf.
- A woman of taqwā who understands that pleasing her husband, within the obedience of Allah, is a means of earning Allah's pleasure. Likewise, I will strive to be the…
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#Support_Line
On occasion, I may use this platform to assist trusted brothers in their search for marriage. While this may not be the primary route to marriage, it serves as a support line for ikhwah.
Why are you doing this?
{كذلك كنتم من قبل فمن الله عليكم}
I was once in that position myself and understand how it feels, so if I am able to help my brothers in any way, I am happy to offer my assistance.
How it…
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1️⃣ Shaykhah Umm Ḥafṣ Bint Al-Hamzī حفظها الله.
Here is her Mukhṭaṣar of Ḥilyah Ṭālib Al-ʿIlm, with a foreword by Shaykh ʿAbdul-Ḥamīd Az-Zuʿkarī:
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Some of her other works include:
Taysīr Al-ʿAlī Al-ʿAẓīm fī Tafsīr Al-Qurʾān Al-ʿAẓīm: Tafsīr Sūrat Al-Fātiḥah wa Juzʾ ʿAmma, with forewords by Shaykh ʿAbdul-Ḥamīd Al-Ḥajūrī and Shaykh ʿAdnān…
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Bossman vs. Husband
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Praying in Clothing With Traces of Semen
Question:
What is the ruling on praying while wearing clothes that have traces of semen remaining after intercourse?
Shaykh Najib Ash-Shar‘abi (may Allah preserve him) replied:
The prayer is valid. According to the correct opinion, semen is considered pure.
It is only recommended to wash it if it is still wet, and to rub it off if it has dried. This is not…
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Is Intercourse Obligatory on the First Night?
Question:
Is intercourse obligatory on the wedding night? May Allah bless you.
Sheikh Muhammad Al-Aflahi:
No, it is not obligatory—meaning it is not required on that specific night. This matter is left to the husband and wife (to decide between themselves).
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Is Bleeding During the First Intercourse Necessary, and Does It Prove a Woman’s Chastity?
Question:
Is bleeding necessary on the wedding night when the hymen is broken, or is it not necessary? Is it evidence of the bride’s chastity and honour? What is the ruling of the Sharīʿah regarding this? We would be greatly thankful for your answer.
Shaykh Khalid Ash-Sharihi (may Allah preserve him) replied:
Bleeding is not…
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جمعه الشيخ عبدالخالق العماد حفظه الله
Contains 100 hadith aḥkām related to women
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Does the Hadith About the Angels' Curse Apply to Ordinary Marital Disagreements?
Question:
If my husband goes to sleep upset with me because of ordinary matters or everyday disagreements—not related to intimacy—do the angels curse me?
Shaykh Abdurraqib Amin (may Allah preserve him) replied:
The warning does not apply to every disagreement. Rather, the text of the hadith specifically relates to intimacy, as stated…
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Teaching Women About Ritual Purity and Puberty in a Mosque Lesson
Question:
Shaykh, I apologise for the length of my question, but every part is important for understanding what I mean. I am a young woman seeking Islamic knowledge, and Allah has blessed me with a position as a female lecturer masjids. I visit each masjid only once or twice a month. My first lecture was about the way of the Messengers in calling…
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A Wife Refuses Her Husband Ejaculating During Pregnancy Periods
Question:
A woman agreed with her husband on a method of preventing pregnancy. The arrangement was that they would have intercourse on certain known and specified days, and while using this method, her husband wanted to have intercourse with her on days other than the agreed days. The wife refused that. Please note that she did not completely refuse…
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Be smart enough to ask for advice...But be wise enough to know who to seek it from.
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Protect Your Daughters
Sheikh Dagash Al-Ajmi hafidhahullah writes:
Look at many women on social media and how they put themselves on display, as though they were slave girls being presented in a slave market, or prostitutes in brothels. The higher the price, the greater the exposure.
O guardians, Fear Allah and protect your daughters! Every wound has a cure, except the wound to one's honour—for that has no…
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A feminist and a non feminist
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Feminism Destroys the Family
Sheikh Dagash Al-Ajmi hafidhahullah writes:
Imagine a married woman with children whose life is stable. Because of a minor problem, she asks for a divorce. When asked why, she says: "I want to live my life!"
Were you dead at home that you now need to "find a life"?
They convinced her that real life means living alone, going out without asking permission, staying out as late as she…
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#Beneficial_Books
رسائل علماء الكويت في الحجاب
Letters of the Scholars of Kuwait concerning the Hijab compiled by Sheikh Dagash Al-Ajmi hafidhahullah
These pages contain a blessed call from a group of scholars who have made seeking the pleasure of Allah, the Most Blessed and Most High, their foremost goal. They call for honouring and dignifying women, and for protecting them from every kind of harm that enemies strive to bring…
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Can a Woman Accept a Marriage Proposal After Khulʿ but Before Receiving the Court Document?
Question:
Shaykh, may Allah preserve and protect you,
A woman obtained a khulʿ through the court. The court ruled that the marriage was annulled, but she has not yet received the written court document.
She has begun observing her waiting period (ʿiddah).
A man has now come forward and wishes to have the Islamically…
Continue reading View on Telegram It is reported from the hadith of Thawban, may Allah be pleased with him, that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Any woman who asks her husband for divorce without a valid reason, the fragrance of Parad
Reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, Abu Dawud, Ibn Majah, and Ad-Dārimi. Al-Albani graded it as authentic in: Al-Mishkat, no. 3279. Sahih Al-Jamiʿ, no. 2706.
If the marriage was invalid because she was still in her waiting period and her waiting period had not ended when she married, then she should return to her first husband with a new marriage contract after completing one menstrual cycle of waiting (istibrāʾ).
I…
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