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Healthy Love vs. Excessive Jealousy Question: There are constant disputes between me and my husband, and the reason is my jealousy over him. I am deeply jealous and monitor his glances; if I notice even the slightest look—or what I perceive to be one—I become jealous. He always argues with me, saying that the kind of jealousy beloved to Allāh is that which concerns prohibited matters, whereas the type of jealousy…

I have never seen any good from you! Question: The questioner asks: If a wife says to her husband, "I have never seen any good from you," what should the husband do? Sheikh Muhammad Hisham At-Tahiri: The husband should be patient and understand that this is a trait commonly found in women, and it is very difficult for them to rid themselves of it. It is as the Prophet ﷺ said: "If she sees something [she…

This video was shared by brothers who went out for sighting last night. Based on their observation, Isha began at 10:11 PM. NOTE: There will be slight differences due to the following variables: - location - height - eyesight - At what exact point did the red twilight fully disappear? The answer to this may vary from person to person. ___ May Allāh bless us with Masjid As-Sahabah and enable us to benefit both the…

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📝 Ash-Shaykh Abee Hudayfah Abdul-Ghani Al-Omaree ( حفظه الله) : Not all marital conflicts stem from a lack of love. Sometimes, love is very much present but the circumstances are simply too harsh to allow it to breathe. Daily pressures, debts, rising costs, and the burden of providing a livelihood all wear down a man’s nerves and steal away a woman’s peace. Over time, the home becomes either a place of…

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Following the Proper Course Regarding Guardianship in Marriage Question: May Allāh reward you with goodness. A person is asking: we have a sister whose father passed away when she was very young. Afterwards, all ties between her and her paternal relatives were severed. She has maternal uncles—can one of them act as her guardian in marriage or not? Sheikh Sulayman Ar-Ruhaili hafidahullah: Guardianship (wilāyah) is…

Ring doorbell - Dealing with different views in marriage Question: I hold the belief that pictures and videos are impermissible in Islam, and my wife shares this belief. However, when I married a second wife in a different country, my first wife installed a doorbell camera for security purposes while I was away. She uses it to communicate with delivery drivers via her phone without opening the door — for example,…

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Ibnul-Qayyim (رحمه الله) said: "He (Shaytan) observes your soul closely to see which trait dominates: courage and determination, or hesitation and weakness. If he sees that you're timid and hesitant, he makes you lazy, weakens your drive to obey Allah, and makes the act feel heavy and difficult — until you eventually give it up or do it carelessly. But if he sees that you're brave and ambitious, he tells you that…

Sheikh Abu Bilal hafidahullah states: We advise that a teacher take care of his students by nurturing them, guiding their moral conduct, and endearing them to knowledge and its people. He should speak well of scholars in front of his students, acquaint them with his own teachers and those from whom he benefitted—those who are engaged in goodness. He should also connect them with other scholars, fellow students of…

Can children see angels and the treasures of the world? Sheikh Yūsuf Al-Jazaa’iri hafidahullāh said: As for the claim that children can see worldly treasures, there is no evidence to support this. In fact, such claims are often made by magicians and charlatans who exploit children and seek to draw near to jinn and devils in order to extract these so-called treasures. These individuals have gone so far as to commit…

He was so devoted to writing hadith that he had no time to eat ‘Ammār ibn Rajā’ said: I heard ‘Ubayd ibn Ya‘eesh say: «أقمت ثلاثين سنة، ما أكلت بيدي بالليل. كانت أختي تلقمني، وأنا أكتب» “I spent thirty years during which I never ate with my own hand at night. My sister would feed me while I wrote.” [Siyar A'lām An-Nubalā']

My father is forcing me to play music at my wedding Questing: Music is prohibited in Islam, but if a father compels his son to have music at a wedding, is the son held accountable? Sheikh Yahya hafidahullah: "Obedience is only in matters that are lawful." It is not permissible to obey a created being in disobedience to the Creator. If a father says, “You have a wedding, and you must bring singers,” this is…

What is the ruling on travelling to non-Muslim countries for medical treatment? Sheikh Yahya hafidahullah: Travelling to non-Muslim countries undoubtedly requires sound knowledge to ward off doubts and a strong religious conscience to restrain desires. If the patient or the one intending to travel—be it for treatment or for da'wah—possesses these qualities, then perhaps he may be safe. However, if he lacks such…

She doesn't want to expose herself to a male doctor Question: A brother residing in Belgium with his wife states that his wife has breast cancer and is undergoing chemotherapy. During each session, she is required to expose her breast in front of male doctors. She is now considering stopping the treatment in order to avoid uncovering her breast, as she can no longer endure the exposure. They are now seeking your…

The ’iddah of a pregnant woman Question: My husband divorced me some time ago while I am pregnant. Now, the doctors discovered that the fetus is deceased. My question is: Does my waiting period (‘iddah) end with the death of the fetus, or with its delivery (the procedure to remove the fetus is scheduled to take place in a week's time)? Sheikh Muhammad Al-Ansi ḥafidhahullāh: And peace, mercy, and blessings of…

Her husband died during Hajj Question: A woman’s husband passed away while she was performing Hajj. What should she do regarding her waiting period (’iddah), and how should she travel back to her country without a mahram? Sheikh Yahya hafidahullah: Observing ’iddah in a foreign land is not possible for her due to the hardship and burdens it entails—she may not find a mahram, nor suitable housing or rent. If she…

Will women veil themselves from men in Paradise? Sheikh Yahya hafidahullah: Paradise contains what Allāh, the Almighty, described in His saying: “Therein are [maidens] restraining their glances, untouched before them by man or jinn” — meaning, they lower their gaze and are devoted to their husbands. The Prophet ﷺ said, in reference to his ascension or in a dream he saw: “I saw a palace, and I asked, ‘Whose is…