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If a Wife Leaves the Marital Home, Is She Still Obliged to Obey Her Husband? Question: A woman fled her husband’s house and went to her father’s house. Her husband has neither divorced her nor given her khul‘. She is currently staying at her father’s house. If she goes with her father to any place, is she required to ask her husband’s permission, even though she does not want him anymore? Please give us a ruling,…

Boycotting Between Spouses Question: a woman had a minor disagreement with her husband, and he stopped speaking to her for seven months up to now. However, he speaks to his daughters every day, but he does not ask about his wife, nor does he try to reconcile with her. Is she sinful for this? Does the hadith apply to her: ‘If a woman refuses her husband when he calls her to bed, the angels curse her until…

By: Shaykha Umm ʿAbdillāh Shahīdah Al-Briṭāniyyah ——•—— The ḥadīth: «إن المرأة عورة، فإذا خرجت استشرفها الشيطان» “The woman is ʿawrah, so when she leaves the house, Shayṭān seeks to draw attention to her [make a big deal out of her].” Meaning: her presence becomes noticed, and attention may be drawn towards her. • This attention can affect a person over time, possibly changing her demeanour if she becomes used…

At-tabarruj: كثرة الخروج بغير حاجة — it is women leaving the house a lot without necessity (adorning yourself with improper clothing is also included in the definition). وَقَرْنَ فِى بُيُوتِكُنَّ وَلَا تَبَرَّجْنَ تَبَرُّجَ ٱلْجَـٰهِلِيَّةِ ٱلْأُولَىٰ “And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” Ibn Kathīr commented on the āyah [Sūrah Al-Aḥzāb:33] with this…

Don’t just be a righteous woman—be a righteous wife Someone complained: "I married a woman who had memorised the Qur’an and had memorised the Muwatta of Malik, a woman who was devoted to worship. Despite all of that, I didn't taste happiness with her for even three consecutive days." Reflection Being a righteous woman does not automatically equate to being a “righteous wife.” The account says: even though the…

Is It Necessary to Urinate After Intercourse Before Performing Ghusl? Question: He says: We heard someone say that after having intercourse with a woman, a person’s ritual washing (ghusl) is not valid unless he urinates first; otherwise, the washing does not count. Sheikh Abdulhameed Az-Zu'kari: Tell this person: Where did you get this from? As far as we know, urinating is only wajib if holding it would harm a…

بســـم الله الرحمن الرحيم ▫️When People Leave, Allâh ﷻ Draws You Closer....💧 ✍ Imam Ash-Shafi‘i رحمه الله said: 💧“When the people abandon you when you are in a time of distress, then know that Allâh ﷻ wants to take over your affair and [make you] suffice with Him as a Guardian.” 📚 Source: Idā’āt Īmāniyyah 💭 Reflection: When Creation Leaves, The Creator Draws Near There are moments in life when the heart…

Question - A man marries a woman with the intention of making her lawful for her first husband to remarry her, what is the ruling on her returning to the first husband? ➡️First, we say that this man who married her is like a “Tees" Do you know what a "Tees" is? (The questioner responds: A male goat, sheikh.) The sheikh replies: In this context, he’s called a “rented goat.” ➡️Second, if the first husband is aware…

"It is not permissible for a woman to wear short clothing in front of her children and mahrams (those with whom marriage is not permissible), and she should not reveal to them anything except what is customarily acceptable without causing temptation. She may wear short clothing only in front of her husband." 📚(Al-Muntaqa min Fatawa al-Sheikh al-Fawzan 308/3) https://t.me/Alquut/620

Fake Eyelashes Question: May Allah bless you, our respected Shaykh. Umm Mu'aadh from Riyadh asks: What is the ruling on using fake eyelashes for beautification in front of one’s husband? Sheikh 'Uthaymin rahimahullah: Fake eyelashes are not permissible, because they resemble hair extensions — that is, adding hair to one’s own hair. The Prophet ﷺ cursed the one who attaches hair and the one who asks for it to be…

Narrated Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him): The Prophet ﷺ said: "It is not allowed for a woman to ask for the divorce of her sister (co-wife) in order to empty her plate, for she will only have what has been decreed for her." [Al-Bukhari (5152) & Muslim (1408)] Ibn Abdil Barr rahimahullah said in his commentary: "This hadith teaches that a woman should not ask her husband to divorce her co-wife, as it…

Al-Allaamah Ibn Sa'di (رحمه الله) said: “You will not find a truthful person except that people hold him in high regard, with love, praise, and respect. And you will not find a liar except that he is despised because of this sinful trait. The truthful person is trusted in his words by both enemy and friend, while the liar is not trusted by anyone, whether far or near.” 📚 Al-Fawaakih al-Shahiyyah (1/135) Join &…

Ath-Tha‘alibi (may Allah have mercy on him) said: «إنَّ الرَّجل لاَ يَسكُنُ إلَى شَيءٍ كَسُكُونِهِ إِلَى زَوجَتِهِ المُوَافِقَةِ المؤاتِية لهُ، وَلاَ يَهتَّمُ أحَدٌ لِأحَدٍ كَاِهتِمَامِ المَرأةِ الصَّالِحَة لِزَوجِهَـا فِي شَفَقَتِهَـا عَليهِ وعَلى عِيالِه، ولاَ يَكادُ يتِّم أمرُ مَنزِلِ الرَّجُل ومُرُوءتِه إلاّ بِحُرّةٍ شفِيقةٍ صَـالِحةٍ عَفِيفـةٍ، وإلاّ اختَّلت أمُورُه واضْطَربَت أَسبَـابُه» “A man does not…

Tr: @Fawaid_Benefits Clip: @Maktabah_AS Note: You may want to play the video at 1.5x speed as there are a few long pauses in the shaykh's speech. T.me/Maktabah_AS

May Allah rectify marriages and grant children a stable home in which they can thrive.

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والسلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته May Allah bless you, we wanted to point out some things in regards to the issue of polygamy, so it can bring more awareness to the brothers and also the sisters. We saw some of your posts in regards to polygamy on Telegram, and they are beneficial, so may Allah reward you with good. But some of the brothers who saw your posts regarding this, may think this is mustahabb (recommended)…