The ruling depends on the consequences. For example, if doing so causes people to become suspicious of them or leads others to become careless about fasting, then in that case it would be considered haram. Otherwise, avoiding this is generally from the angle of adab as stated here ⤵️
https://t.me/khawaaaaatir/17
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The lecture being referenced in the question…
A quiet habit that's become normalised even among the "righteous".
It creates resentment and distance between people, families, and communities.
It fills the space with suspicion and negativity instead of trust and respect.
It's so easy to fall into, yet so detrimental to one's Deen and Dunya.
While turning off the livestream for the Hilyah class a short while ago, I accidentally deleted the Madrasatuna telegram channel.
Unfortunately, once a channel is deleted, it cannot be restored. As a result, a new channel has now been created.
https://t.me/madrasatunaa
Is It Right for Women to Seek Work as Security in Marriage?
Question:
I have a question, many women nowadays want to get married but they refuse to be housewives as no men of their family would properly take care of them if something ever happens with the marriage (divorce or husband's death). So they think its better for them to seek a husband who would let them work, rather then remaining at home as housewives.…
I’m truly astonished. Some people will tell you, “Your secret is buried deep in a well (i.e. it's safe with me).” But the moment they get upset with you, they switch on the pump and let it flow to the whole village.
https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbCSKCQCXC3Nv5OYUQ2q
Many sisters when it comes to seeking knowledge find it a burden or tend to say “Why should I seek knowledge, when my only duty is being a mother and the caretaker of the home?”
But in order to be a good mother you must seek knowledge on how to do so.
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Shaykh ʿAhmad an Najmī (رحمه الله) said:
"The mother is the first school. If she is righteous, the children will become righteous."
📚Fatḥ ur-Rabb al-Wadud,…
We spend our whole life worrying what will people say. In the end all they say is:
إِنَّــــا لِــــلَّــــهِ وَإِنَّــــا إِلَيْــهِ رَاجِــــعُـــــــون
https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbCSKCQCXC3Nv5OYUQ2q
Just as you leave some food to cool a little so it’s easier to eat, let some disagreements settle so they become easier to resolve.
https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbCSKCQCXC3Nv5OYUQ2q
Advice for Women Residing in Countries that Ban the Niqāb
Question:
This is a question from France. The questioner says: France intends to pass a law banning the wearing of the niqāb. If that occurs, what is obligatory upon those vulnerable women who are unable to migrate?
Sheikh Salih Al-Fawzan hafidhahullah:
This is among the harms of residing in lands of disbelief: they impose their systems and their disbelief…
Good Character Begins at Home
Sheikh Sulayman Ar-Ruhayli hafidhahullah said:
If you train yourself to adopt a certain good character, you’ll find that after some time it becomes natural to you. There is no good trait that you cannot develop. But you should seek help from Allah and strive for it.
Some people say, “I’m just an angry person, that’s how I am.” But that’s not true—you can train yourself. Force it upon…
A quiet habit that's become normalised even among the "righteous".
It creates resentment and distance between people, families, and communities.
It fills the space with suspicion and negativity instead of trust and respect.
It's so easy to fall into, yet so detrimental to one's Deen and Dunya.
What Men and Women Talk About and Why
Ibn Hajar mentioned among the benefits of the hadith of Umm Zar':
وفيه أن من شأن النساء إذا تحدثن أن لا يكون حديثهن غالبا إلا في الرجال، وهذا بخلاف الرجال فإن غالب حديثهم إنما هو فيما يتعلق بأمور المعاش
“It shows that when women talk, their conversations are often about men. In contrast, men usually talk about matters related to their work and daily life
Why is this?
نقل…
The Story of Umm Zar' and the Women Describing Their Husbands
Narrated by 'Aishah bint Abi Bakr (may Allah be pleased with her and her father):
Eleven women sat together and made a promise that they would not hide anything about their husbands.
The first woman said: “My husband is like weak camel meat placed on top of a mountain—hard to reach, and not worth the effort even if you could.”
The second said: “I…
It was narrated in Sahih Muslim from 'Uqbah bn 'Amr al-Ansari (رضي الله عنه) that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
مَنْ دَلَّ عَلَى خَيْرٍ فَلهُ مثلُ أَجْرِ فَاعِلِهِ
"Whoever guides someone to goodness will have a reward like the one who did it."
It was also narrated in Bukhari and Muslim from Sahl bn Sa'd al-Sa'idi (رضي الله عنه) that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said on the day of Khaibar:
فَواللَّه لَأَنْ…
Do you think there should be a
limit to girls' education?
Sheikh Ibn Baz rahimahullah said:
"No, there is no limit. Rather, they should continue learning to the highest levels so that they may benefit others and be of benefit." [Majmu' Fatawa 8/35]
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General principle
The Prophet ﷺ said:
((بلغوا عني ولو آية))
“Convey from me, even if it is one Ayah.” [Al-Bukhāri 3461]
This shows that conveying knowledge is…
Dignity Comes Before Discounts
Know O sister that:
لا يجوز للمرأة أن تمزح مع البائع أو تكثر الحديث معه للتخفيض من ثمن البضاعة؛ فإن حياءها أثمن من ثمن السلعة.
It is not permissible for a woman to joke with a seller or engage in too much conversation with him just to lower the price of an item, because her modesty is more valuable than the item itself.
Source: https://t.me/womensbenefits/1599
The Danger of a Woman Speaking Too Freely with Men
Question:
Some women continue talking with a seller in unnecessary ways. What is the ruling on this?
Sheikh Uthaymin rahimahullah:
It is not permissible for a woman to continue unnecessary conversation with a man who is not closely related to her, because this can lead to fitnah. Allah, the Most High, said: “Do not speak in a soft manner, lest someone with…
Advice Regarding a Woman Who Gets Physical With Her Husband
Question:
What advice do you have regarding a wife who claims Salafiyyah: when she becomes angry she raises her hand against her husband, and when he becomes angry with her she says, “I was joking with you.”
Sheikh Abdulhameed Az-Zu'kari:
This is a foolish woman. Foolish women need discipline. It is not permissible for a woman to raise her hand against…
