من لم يستطع الوقوفَ بعرفة
فليقف عند حدود الله الذي عرفه
Whoever is unable to stand at ‘Arafah, then let him stop at the limits of Allāh known to him
ومن لم يستطع المبيتَ بمزدلفة
فليبت على طاعة الله ليقربه ويزلفه
And whoever is unable to spend the night at Muzdalifah, then let him spend the night in Allāh's obedience in order to draw close & near to Him
ومن لم يقدر على ذبح هديه بمني
فليذبح هواه ليبلغ به المنى…
❝Those who spend their wealth in the cause of Allāh and do not follow their charity with reminders of their generosity or hurtful words—they will get their reward from their Lord, and there will be no fear for them, nor will they grieve.❞
[Sūrah Al-Baqarah 262]
📝 Question:
I have a mother, may Allāh protect her, whenever she requests something from me I immediately comply in fulfilling her request. I do not complain or whine in front of her, nor do I display any displeasure. However when I go to some of my sisters, I complain to them regarding my mother, of her many demands. Is this considered disobedience and undutifulness towards the parents? Please benefit me, may…
Imām Al-Qurṭubi raḥimahullāh said:
“Allāh the Almighty did not mention any woman by name in His book except Maryam, the daughter of ‘Imrān; her name was mentioned approximately thirty times. The wisdom behind this as some scholars mentioned is that: kings and noblemen would avoid mentioning their wives and naming them in public places. Instead, they would refer to them using terms like spouse, wife, family,…
قال شيخ الإسلام ابن تيمية رحمه الله: ”أيام عشر ذي الحجة أفضل من أيام العشر من رمضان، والليالي العشر الأواخر من رمضان أفضل من ليالي عشر ذي الحجة.“
قال ابن القيم : ”وإذا تأمل الفاضل اللبيب هذا الجواب وجده شافيا كافيا...فمن أجاب بغير هذا التفصيل لم يمكنه أن يدلي بحجة صحيحة.“
[Majmū‘ul Fatāwā (25/287)]
Dhul-Ḥijjah is the twelfth and final month of the year, and the first 10 days of Dhul-Ḥijjah are the best 'days' of the year!
This year, Dhul-Ḥijjah will start at Maghrib on the 10th of July 2021
Ibn ‘Abbās raḍhiyallāhu ‘anhumā reported: The Messenger of Allāh (ﷺ) said:
((ما من أيام العمل الصالح فيها أحب إلى الله من هذه الأيام‏ - يعني أيام العشر - قالوا‏:‏ يا رسول الله ولا الجهاد في سبيل الله‏؟‏ قال‏:‏ ‏"‏ولا الجهاد في سبيل الله، إلا رجل خرج بنفسه، وماله فلم يرجع من ذلك بشيء‏)).
“There are no…
((نِعْمَ النِّسَاءُ نِسَاءُ الأَنْصَارِ لَمْ يَكُنْ يَمْنَعُهُنَّ الْحَيَاءُ أَنْ يَتَفَقَّهْنَ فِي الدِّينِ)) ‏
“The best women are the women of the Anṣār. Shyness would not prevent them from inquiring & learning the Deen.”
[Muslim 332]
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📝 QUESTION:
There is a doubt regarding masturbation during periods. If a person stimulates themself to the point of reaching orgasm during…
ٱمَرَأَةٌ مُصْبِيَةٌ - a woman who has kids
ٱمَرَأَةٌ غَيْرَى - a jealous woman
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Anas raḍhiyallāhu ‘anhu said: it was said: "O Messenger of Allāh, why don't you marry a woman from the Anṣār?" He ﷺ said:
((إِنَّ فِيهِمْ لَغَيْرَةً شَدِيدَةً))
“They are very jealous.”
[Sunan An-Nasā'ē (3233), graded Ṣaḥīḥ by Sheikh Albānī]
Points of benefit:
1. Excessive jealousy is not a praiseworthy…
