Marriage Guidance Amid Parental Refusal
Question:
May Allah reward you with goodness. A sister is asking and says: I am 17 years old and I live in the United States, and I am divorced. I sought khulʿ (divorce initiated by the wife) from my former husband due to injustice and mistreatment. After that, I wanted to look for another husband, especially since I am striving against myself, fear falling into temptation,…
Transgenderism in Islam
Question:
What is the Islamic ruling on transgenderism?
Shaykh Abdul-Hameed Az-Zoukory hafidhahullah
The woman is a woman, and the man is a man. Everyone must know this.
A man cannot become a woman, and a woman cannot become a man even if they undergo surgeries involving gender change from woman to man or from man to woman.
According to the (ruling) of Allah and the legislation of…
Marital Green Flags
Question:
What qualities should one look for in a potential partner?
Answer:
Marry someone who is L.O.Y.A.L.
L — Lowers the gaze and guards modesty
O — Obedient to Allah
Y — Yearns for Jannah and growth in deen
A — Amanah — trustworthy, honest, and dependable
L — Loving through thick and thin
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How to Repent from Backbiting
Question:
A woman who has been granted success in following the Salafi manhaj asks: “All praise is for Allah, but I feel great pain because I committed many sins of backbiting in the past. I used to speak badly about people, but now I want to repent. I have heard that one of the conditions of repentance is to seek forgiveness from the people involved. However, if I do that, it may…
And You Wonder Why Your Du'as Are Not Accepted
Question:
Some spouses who live in Denmark and some other western countries annul their contracts of their marriage at the Civil Office claiming irreconcilable differences with each other, though in truth there are no problems in the marriage. They only do so to get social support of a higher value, albeit they are not in need of such an increase. Is this permissible?…
Marital Red Flags
Question:
What traits should one avoid in a potential partner.
Answer:
Avoid a D.I.S.L.O.Y.A.L. person.
D — Deceitful
Habitually dishonest, manipulative, or hiding important truths.
I — Immodest
Lacking ḥayā’ (modesty/shame before Allah) in speech, dress, or conduct.
S — Spiteful
Constantly harsh, vindictive, insulting, or nurturing resentment.
L — Loose-tongued
Constant gossip,…
Below is a compiled list of beneficial Telegram channels run by female Shaykhāt and students of knowledge, specifically curated for women:
1. The Daughters of Imām Al-Albāni (Hassānah & Sukaynah) — [ARABIC]
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2. Umm 'Abdillāh Al-Wadi'iyyah (Daughter of Sheikh Muqbil al-Wadi'i)
ARABIC: https://t.me/alwad3ya
ENGLISH: https://t.me/alwadeia
INDONESIAN: https://t.me/alwadeia3…
1⃣. Eat in moderation.
Fill one-third of your stomach with food, one-third with water, and leave one-third empty for easy breathing.
2⃣. Avoid:
Sugar and foods made with it, white flour, hydrogenated oils, rock salt, canned and processed foods, including soft drinks.
Better alternatives:
Stevia instead of sugar, whole grains, olive oil, sesame oil, coconut oil or natural ghee, Himalayan salt or sea salt, fresh…
The Chain of Evil That Begins With Suspicion
Sahl ibn ʿAbdillāh At-Tustarī (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
🔻 “Whoever wishes to be safe from backbiting should close upon himself the door of suspicion.
🔻 Whoever is safe from suspicion will be safe from spying.
🔻 Whoever is safe from spying will be safe from backbiting.
🔻 Whoever is safe from backbiting will be safe from falsehood.
🔻 Whoever is safe…
A fully halal, fully segregated community Eid event with dedicated activities for brothers, sisters& children.
📅 Friday 29th May
📍 Old Haberdashers Rugby Club
🕐 1PM – 8PM
🎟️ See poster for ticket prices
This isn’t just for families with children — there’ll also be dedicated brothers & sisters areas with activities, food, sports, chill spaces and more throughout the day.
🔥 Brothers Area Includes:
⚽ Football…
If Khulaʿ is Finalised, Can the Husband Take Her Back?
Sheikh Ibn Baz rahimahullah said:
If the divorce mentioned took place in exchange for compensation, then the woman is not lawful for him again unless a new marriage contract is made with all the conditions required by Islamic law. This is because a divorce given in exchange for compensation is considered a minor irrevocable separation, in which the husband does…
- What's the motive?
We want to provide a halal Eid Fun Day for everyone to enjoy.
- Is the event fully segregated?
Yes ✅
Although it's a private gated field, we will do our best to maintain segregation throughout the event.
- Is face painting allowed in Islam?
Yes ✅
See: https://t.me/womensbenefits/286
- Can single sisters attend?
Yes ✅
However, we advise sisters to attend with their mahrams, travel together,…
Does a Divorced Woman’s Waiting Period End If She Aborts the Pregnancy?
Question:
A pregnant woman was divorced by her husband, then she miscarried her fetus. Does her waiting period (iddah) end because of the miscarriage?
Sheikh Yahya Al-Hajoori hafidhahullah:
Some scholars believe that once the fetus comes out — whether through birth or miscarriage — after the pregnancy has been confirmed, the woman’s waiting…
It is rare for a person to remain the same as when you first knew them. Hearts change, feelings grow cold, and the affection that once felt sincere slowly fades.
It is as if companionship in these times has become like a currency whose value keeps changing; it shifts with personal interest, weakens at the first mistake, and disappears at the first disagreement.
Where are the hearts that used to forgive mistakes, be…
A sister has made a group chat for the sisters in Yemen or those that want to go to Yemen to connect and help each other, similar to this group. Fairly new, currently has 35 members. Any sisters in Ye
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A day of eating, drinking, and remembrance.
📅 Friday, 29th May
📍 Old Haberdashers Rugby Club
🕕 1:00 PM – 8:00 PM
🎟️ See poster for entry fees
Come together with family and friends to make this an Eid to remember, filled with joy and special memories ✨
📩 To reserve your place or for more information:
https://www.zeffy.com/en-GB/ticketing/eid-fun-day-3
Spaces are limited, so please book early to avoid…
Weakness Of Tawḥeed Among Women
Shaykh Abdul-Ghani
Al-Umaree hafidhahullah said:
And because of this, some of the sisters among the women have problems inside the home and become weak.
Due to weakness in Tawḥeed, the problems gained control over them, so it weakened their Tawḥeed, weakened their worship, weakened their reading of the Qur’an, weakened their reliance upon Allah, weakened their dependence upon…
A day of eating, drinking, and remembrance.
📅 Friday, 29th May
📍 Old Haberdashers Rugby Club
🕕 1:00 PM – 8:00 PM
🎟️ See poster for entry fees
Come together with family and friends to make this an Eid to remember, filled with joy and special memories ✨
📩 To reserve your place or for more information:
https://www.zeffy.com/en-GB/ticketing/eid-fun-day-3
Spaces are limited, so please book early to avoid…
