I am looking for a sister who has taqwa of Allah ﷻ and is sincere in her commitment to her deen, striving to fulfil her obligations in worship with consistency and devotion. I deeply admire modesty, and I am especially drawn to a sister who observes the niqab and carries herself with dignity and sincerity for the sake of Allah ﷻ.
I value a marriage rooted in Islamic principles, mutual respect, and understanding. My…
#Support_Line
On occasion, I may use this platform to assist trusted brothers in their search for marriage. While this may not be the primary route to marriage, it serves as a support line for ikhwah.
Why are you doing this?
{كذلك كنتم من قبل فمن الله عليكم}
I was once in that position myself and understand how it feels, so if I am able to help my brothers in any way, I am happy to offer my assistance.
How it…
Beware of wearing clothes that have a cross on them!
عن عَائِشَةَ رضى الله عنها أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ لَمْ يَكُنْ يَتْرُكُ فِي بَيْتِهِ شَيْئًا فِيهِ تَصَالِيبُ إِلاَّ نَقَضَهُ.
A'ishah (may Allāh be pleased with her) reported that the Prophet ﷺ would not leave in his house anything containing crosses except that he obliterated it. [Sahih Bukhari - 5952]
❓Question:
A sister, over the years had been careless during Ramadan and has intentionally broken fasts during Ramadan, the number of which she had not tracked down.
In this case, what is to be done?
🎙️Answered by: Ustadh Abu Harun
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She Did Not Receive the Divorce Message Because She Blocked Him: Does the Divorce Count?
Enquiry:
A brother divorced his wife by sending her a WhatsApp message. Two months later, when she was asked about it, she said she was unaware of the divorce because she had blocked him. Does the divorce count? If it does, when does the waiting period (iddah) begin?
Response:
It is obligatory to inform the wife of the…
The Ruling on Informing the Wife About Her Divorce
Question:
A preacher said during a Friday khutbah: “The husband should not tell his wife that he has divorced her.” Is this ruling correct, and does it have evidence from the Qur’an and Sunnah?
Sheikh Ibn Baz rahimahullah:
The wife must be informed of the divorce so that she knows whether she is divorced or not. If a man divorces her, he must let her know about…
Is a Divorce Valid If the Wife Is Not Told?
Question:
A man has been away from his wife for a long time, and he divorced her privately (only in his own mind/without telling her). Does the divorce take effect?
Sheikh Uthaymin rahimahullah:
The divorce takes effect even if the wife is not informed. If a person verbally pronounces the divorce and says, ‘I have divorced my wife,’ then the wife is divorced whether she…
A man asked a Bedouin: “What do you think about marriage?”
The Bedouin replied: “It's like a watermelon!”
The man asked, surprised: “How so?”
The Bedouin said: “You don't know whether it's sweet or bitter until you open it!”
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Reconciliation May Be Better Than Separation Even When Some Rights Are Given Up
Question:
Allah’s statement: “And reconciliation is better” — in the context of reconciliation between spouses. If a reconciliation happens where the wife gives up her right to financial support (or part of it), or gives up some of her rights in the marriage, and she is harmed by doing so, how can this be better than divorce if she has…
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته.
These actions mentioned in the question need to be controlled and properly regulated. Sometimes there are greater general benefits, and there are also personal interests. The point that arises here is: personal interests should not be allowed to affect the wider public interests.
If a da‘ee has had a disagreement with someone regarding certain matters, then do not allow your…
Allah Almighty said in His Noble Book describing the righteous: {And those who, when they commit an immorality or wrong themselves, remember Allah and seek forgiveness for their sins — and who forgive
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Then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Most High, Most Great. }Nushuz (ill-conduct) can also come from the husband, and the solution in that case, as Allah Almigh
Handling Claims of Oppression and Preventing Division Within the Community
Question:
I would like some advice regarding an issue that has become ongoing within our community. There are individuals who claim to have been wronged or oppressed by their husband(s) who are students of knowledge or teachers. As a result, whenever those teachers are invited to teach, give reminders, or speak in the masjid, these…
Seeking Halāl Employment: The Challenge of Video Interviews
Question:
I am a revert sister. My family currently practises siḥr and uses it to seek revenge, amongst other things. I have been trying to get married since 2024 but thus far have not had success. My family is not able to support me financially so I need to find a means of supporting myself. Relying on zakāh until I'm able to get married does not seem to…
Ruling on Carrying a Child During Prayer While the Nappy Contains Impurity
Question:
A sister says: Sometimes I carry my daughter during prayer because she cries intensely. She is wearing a nappy, and she has already urinated in it. What is the ruling on my prayer and on carrying her during prayer in this situation? May Allah reward you.
Sheikh Ibn Baz rahimahullah:
If the nappy contains impurity, then do not carry her. If there is impurity on her, do not carry her. However, if she is…
Carrying a Nappy-Wearing Child in Prayer
Question:
Is it permissible to carry a child during prayer knowing that the child is wearing a nappy?
Sheikh Uthaymin rahimahullah:
If we know that the nappy contains impurity (najāsah), then it is not permissible to carry the child, because when the Prophet ﷺ was informed by Jibrīl that there was something impure on his sandals, he removed them.
However, if we do not…
Dealing with someone who constantly positions themselves as the victim (whether fairly or not) is less about “winning” and more about not getting pulled into their narrative. The main risk is that you get dragged into defending yourself endlessly or start accepting guilt that isn’t yours.
Here are practical ways to handle it:
1⃣. Don’t argue the entire story
A “professional victim” often reframes events to centre…
1⃣. Avoid debating every detail
If you go point-by-point correcting them, you often end up trapped in a loop where the focus shifts from truth to emotion.
Don’t expect logical resolution from an emotional narrative.
2⃣. Don’t over-apologise to “calm things down”
Over-apologising just to end tension can reinforce their pattern.
It signals that emotional pressure = control.
3⃣. Don’t take responsibility for…
