Al-Awzā‘ī (رحمه الله) said:
كُنَّا نَضحَكُ وَنَمزَحُ، فَلَمَّا صِرْنَا يُقْتَدَى بِنَا، خَشِيْتُ أَنْ لاَ يَسَعَنَا التَّبَسُّمُ.
"We used to laugh and joke, but when people began to take us as examples, I feared that even smiling might no longer be appropriate for us.”
[Siyar A‘lām an-Nubalā: 7/132]
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Understanding the “Screw-Face” Among Practising Brothers & Sisters
A brother remarked:
"It's calm to buss jokes sometimes...why you man always screw-facing?"
Response:
Walaal, the reason you sometimes see practicing brothers or sisters with a screw-face is because, from the moment they step outside their homes until they return, they are surrounded by all kinds of evil and temptation. Some even face those same…
Is It Possible to Be Both a Dedicated Student of Knowledge and a Good Husband?
A conversation with Sheikh Albani's wife
Questioner: Being the wife of this noble scholar, did you see that his knowledge, seeking knowledge and teaching it to the people took away from his coexistence with you as the head of your household? And did this have a negative effect on his children? And my dear mother, can I ask you to single…
Ruling on Styling the Hair in “Mèche” Strands and Dyeing It
Shaykh Ṣāliḥ Al-Fawzān (may Allāh preserve him) was asked:
What is the ruling on dyeing all of one’s hair with any of the colours—red, yellow, white, or golden? What is the ruling on “mèche” highlighting, which is a fashion that came from the West and was adopted by some of our women, consisting of dyeing scattered strands of hair in a colour different from the natural hair colour—whether white, red, or golden—so…
The Ruling on Women Dyeing Select Strands of Hair (Highlights)
Question: May Allāh bless you and benefit others through you. What is the ruling on a woman dyeing some strands of her hair while leaving others undyed?
Sheikh Yusuf Al-Jazaa'iri ḥafidhahullāh:
As for a woman dyeing her hair in multiple colours by making it into coloured streaks—this is what is known as mèches (highlighting). Some scholars have…
Is Your Mother Making Du'a For You or Against You?
Shaikh Muhammad ibn Ibrahim Al-Humoodi mentioned a story to me about His Eminence, Shaikh ’Abdul-’Aziz ibn Baaz’s mother, so I asked him to write it which he did and for which I am grateful, dated 11/10/1421. Here is the text of the letter:
الحمد لله وحده، والصلاة والسلام على من لا نبي بعده
Thereafter, at the request of my brother ’Abdul-Aziz ibn ’Abdullah as-Sadhaan that I write down for him the story of what…
Talbeenah is a porridge-like dish made primarily from barley flour cooked with milk, often sweetened with honey. Its consistency is smooth and light, similar to thin porridge. It is a comforting food
📌 This is a beneficial treatise on the topic of Talbeenah written by Abu ’Amr Muhaib Adh-Dhali‘ee ḥafidhahullāh
Women are easily affected by music
Ibn Al-Qayyim rahimahullah said in Ighāthat Al-Lahfān:
«المرأة سريعة الانفعال للأصوات جدا»
“Women are very quick to be influenced by sounds.”
Istikhārah is not about waiting for a “sign.” It's about asking Allāh to facilitate what is good and divert what is harmful.
The duʿā’ itself says:
“If You know it to be good for me…then decree it for me and make it easy for me. And if You know it to be bad for me…then turn it away from me and turn me away from it.”
So the outcome is seen in the way the matter unfolds, not necessarily in dreams or emotional changes.
✅ Not every hardship means “leave it.”
❌ Not every ease means “this is from Allāh.”
For example, a person may perform…
Marrying a Person of Innovation
Sheikh Sulayman Ar-Ruhaili hafidahullah states:
Likewise, according to the more correct opinion, compatibility (kafā’ah) in soundness of religious belief is a necessary condition. As such, it is not permissible for a Sunni woman to be married off to a man from among the people of innovation, especially those associated with manifest innovations such as the Khawārij and similar…
الله يحفظكم ويبارك فيكم
Kindly look into the matter below and advise us,
إن شاء الله.
One of the sisters’ father has brought forward a marriage proposal from a family who haven't directly stated themselves as Deobandis. But the organisations they are associated with are deobandi organisations. The elder brother of the proposed groom studied at Darul Uloom Deoband, and Azhar University. He is connected with Darul…
❓) If I have no income, do I still have to pay zakah?
✅) Zakah is not based on income. It becomes obligatory on money only when:
A. Your wealth reaches the nisāb
B. A full lunar year passes while that amount remains in your ownership
So:
-> If your savings do not reach the nisāb, no zakah is due
-> If your savings reach the nisāb but are spent before one lunar year passes, no zakah is due
-> If your savings remain…
I’m currently having some issues with my husband, I want to call for divorce but I don’t know if I’m being dramatic, I will list the issues and I ask you to please help me:
[list deleted]
This isn’t what I thought I was getting, can I ask for a divorce?
____
Advice:
Shayṭān delights in separating spouses, so be wise and cautious. Do not let doubts or whispers influence your decisions. Continue to fulfil your…
The Ruling on Women Going Out for Da‘wah and Delivering Lessons
Questioner: He says: Some women go out to give Da'wah to other women, where they visit them in their homes and invite them to attend private lessons, and they may do this frequently. Does this contradict what Allāh has commanded them regarding remaining in their homes, since she goes out and moves from place to place? Especially with us, Shaykh, women…
Women Teaching Qur'ān To Young Boys
Question: I would like to ask for clarification regarding the ruling of a woman teaching the Qur’an to young boys in a face-to-face setting.
There are some niqab-wearing women who earn a livelihood by teaching the Qur'ān (Iqra’, tahsin, and tajwīd) to children aged between 6 and 12 years old. The students consist of both boys and girls.
They sit in the same halaqah, with the…
Speak Well Or Remain Silent
طِيبُ الكَلامِ كالثِّمَار اليَانِعَةْ * فاخْتَرْ مِنَ الألفاظِ كُلَّ نافِعَةْ
Good speech is like ripe fruit,
so choose from words only those that are beneficial.
قُلِ الّتِي لِلسّامِعِينَ أَحْسَنُ * إنّ اللّسَانَ كَالسّلاحِ يَطْعَنُ
Say that which is best to the listeners, for the tongue, like a weapon, can wound.
وَرَاعِ قَدْرَ عَقْلِ مَنْ تُكِلِّمُ * وبَسِّطِ الكلامَ حتّى…
Is It Permissible for Women to Continue Studying Under a Salafi Teacher if Her Husband Leaves Salafiyyah?
Question: We are studying under a virtuous Salafi female da‘iyah who sought knowledge since the days of Dammaj, then later in Al-Hami.
She has much goodness, but she married a shaykh who was from Ahlus-Sunnah, then afterwards he deviated Allaah is the one sought for help.
In the neighbouring village, there…
وترى الكريم إذا تصرم وصله * يخفي القبيح ويظهر الإحسانا
وترى اللئيم إذا تقضى وصله * يخفي الجميل ويظهر البهتانا.
You will find the noble, when the bond is cut,
conceals what is blameworthy and displays kindness.
But the ignoble, when the bond is ended,
hides the good and displays slander.
[Iḥyāʾ ʿUlūm Ad-Dīn, 2/195]
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Safeguarding Secrets
Sheikh Faisal Al-Hashidi ḥafidhahullāh writes:
Remember, my brother in faith, that one who entrusts you with his secrets is a brother who loves you and has placed his confidence in you. Therefore, be worthy of his trust and protect his secrets just as you would protect any trust—material or otherwise.
Jābir ibn ʿAbdillāh (may Allāh be pleased with him) narrated that the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ…
Does An Influencer Bear Sin for What Others Circulate After Their Repentance?
Question: A woman who was known as a “social-media influencer” used to appear unveiled, take photos of herself, and post them. Then Allāh blessed her with guidance, repentance, and returning to Him. She immediately deleted all her accounts and erased everything, by Allāh’s grace. But, as you know, what is on the internet remains, and many…
Marriage vs. Seeking knowledge
Question: Do you advise a student to get married or to pursue knowledge?
Sheikh Abdulḥamīd Az-Zu'kari hafidahullāh:
I advise them to marry and to seek knowledge, for as long as he is able to combine the two, why should he deprive himself of such good? But if he were to say, for example, that he needs essential knowledge and perhaps is unable to marry, then we say: begin with…