Is Intercourse Obligatory on the First Night?
Question:
Is intercourse obligatory on the wedding night? May Allah bless you.
Sheikh Muhammad Al-Aflahi:
No, it is not obligatory—meaning it is not required on that specific night. This matter is left to the husband and wife (to decide between themselves).
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Praying in Clothing With Traces of Semen
Question:
What is the ruling on praying while wearing clothes that have traces of semen remaining after intercourse?
Shaykh Najib Ash-Shar‘abi (may Allah preserve him) replied:
The prayer is valid. According to the correct opinion, semen is considered pure.
It is only recommended to wash it if it is still wet, and to rub it off if it has dried. This is not…
The Ruling on Masturbation for Men and Women
Question:
What is the ruling on masturbation for men and women?
Shaykh Abdurraqib ibn Amin Qaid (may Allah preserve him) said:
Masturbation is prohibited according to the Sharīʿah, medicine, and sound reasoning, and healthy natural dispositions reject it.
Allah says in His Book: “And those who guard their private parts, except from their wives or those their right…
Can a Man Marry a Second Wife If He Has Limited Sexual Ability?
Question:
If a husband is weak and is only able to have intercourse once or twice a week, is it permissible for him to marry a second wife because he has the financial ability to do so?
Shaykh Khalid Ash-Sharahi (may Allah preserve him) replied:
And peace, mercy, and blessings of Allah be upon you.
The scholars have stipulated that whoever wants to…
صفة وضوء النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم
Description of the Prophet's Wudhu by Sheikh Abdullah Al-Iryani https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLILZM7Z8mbfBU62DJ8fXdyv1pqYuQlHkl
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تلخيص صفة صلاة النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم
The Summary of the Prophet's Prayer by Sheikh Albani rahimahullah
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Raise Your Sons to Be Men
Sheikh Dagash Al-Ajmi hafidhahullah writes:
O men, Raise your sons to be manly.
Umar ibn al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) said:
"Live a rugged life, and beware of becoming overly accustomed to luxury."
Raise your son to have honour, courage, and toughness.
Encourage him to spend time with men, for gatherings are schools in themselves.
Praying in the masjid helps him grow…
Protect Your Daughters
Sheikh Dagash Al-Ajmi hafidhahullah writes:
Look at many women on social media and how they put themselves on display, as though they were slave girls being presented in a slave market, or prostitutes in brothels. The higher the price, the greater the exposure.
O guardians, Fear Allah and protect your daughters! Every wound has a cure, except the wound to one's honour—for that has no…
Do Not Be Excessive in Exercising Authority
Sheikh Dagash Al-Ajmi hafidhahullah writes:
Some men go to extremes in the way they exercise their authority within the family, and they treat women very poorly, even preventing them from things that are permissible.
Women need room to enjoy what is permissible. That is why Islamic law has allowed women certain things that it has forbidden for men, because they suit…
«تَعَلَّمُوا العِلْمَ وَاعْقِلُوهُ، وَانْتَفِعُوا بِهِ، وَلَا تَتَعَلَّمُوهُ لِتَتَجَمَّلُوا بِهِ، فَإِنَّهُ يُوشِكُ إِنْ طَالَ بِكُمُ العُمُرُ أَنْ يَتَجَمَّلَ بِالعِلْمِ كَمَا يَتَجَمَّلُ الرَّجُلُ بِبِزَّتِهِ»
“Learn knowledge, understand and benefit from it. Do not seek knowledge merely to adorn yourselves with it, for if you live long enough, a time may come when people will use knowledge as an adornment just…
Your Circle Determines Your Value
Sheikh Dagash Al-'Ajmi hafidhahullah said:
"Your value is where you place yourself. The place where you put yourself may be among people who have value, status, and standing in society—people who are respected, known for goodness and righteousness, and known for good qualities. In that case, your value becomes like the value of those you are with. But when you place yourself with…
The great mufassir Al-haafidh Ismaa'eel ibn Kathir mentioned in his tafsir:
قال بعض السلف: إذا سمعت المثل في القرآن فلم أفهمه بكيت على نفسي ؛ لأن الله تعالى يقول : ( وتلك الأمثال نضربها للناس وما يعقلها إلا العالمون)
Some of the salaf said: If I heard a parable in the Qur'an but didn't understand it, I would weep for myself, for Allah says,
{وَتِلْكَ الْأَمْثَالُ نَضْرِبُهَا لِلنَّاسِ ۖ وَمَا يَعْقِلُهَا إِلَّا…
A Difference in Understanding Should Not Remove Brotherhood
Yunus ibn Abdil-A'la As-Sadafi (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
"ما رأيت أعقل من الشافعي ناظرته يوماً في مسألة، ثم افترقنا ولقيني فأخذ بيدي، ثم قال: "يا أبا موسى ألا يستقيم أن نكون إخواناً وإن لم نتفق في مسألة؟".
"I never saw anyone wiser than Muhammad ibn Idris Ash-Shafi'i. One day, we discussed a religious issue and disagreed. After we parted, he met me again, took my hand, and said: 'O Abu Musa, can't we…
Women's Corruption: A Consequence of Men's Negligence
Sheikh Bakr Abu Zayd rahimahullah writes:
"Every individual whom Allah has entrusted with the affairs of a woman—whether a father, son, husband, or otherwise—must fear Allah regarding that which he has been entrusted with.
He must employ every means to protect her from unveiling, displaying her beauty, free mixing, and all the means that lead to such matters,…
Looking at Haram and its Evil Consequences
One man—may Allah forgive both him and us—shared what he suffered because of looking at forbidden things. He said:
"I started seeing all women the same way, whether they were on my phone, in the market, on the street, in parks, or in shops. I would constantly have lustful thoughts about them. My eyes would not stop wandering from one woman to another. If I ever had the…
