Are We Allowed To Willingly Free-mix During ’Umrah & Hajj?
Question: How should one respond to those who permit free-mixing, citing that men and women are together during the Hajj?
Sheikh ’Abdulhameed Az-Zu'kari ḥafidhahullāh:
Who has permitted freemixing during Hajj? Did Allāh permit this freemixing? Did the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ permit it such that it could be used as an argument to allow free-mixing?…
Wedding Rings vs. Rings Worn as Adornments
Question: What is the ruling on women wearing a دِبْلَة (*): if the ring is worn solely as an adornment?
Sheikh ’Abdulhameed Az-Zu'kari ḥafidhahullāh
In essence, the دبلة is actually a ring. If it is worn solely as an adornment, there is no harm in this. However, designating a ring specifically for engagement or marriage—where only engaged or married women wear it—and…
Many factors contribute to this widespread moral decline, including social media, diminished fear of Allāh, an obsession with worldly gains, overpowering desires, weak commitment to knowledge and righ
So, as you would not desire this for your own loved ones, refrain from inflicting it on others. Allāh is the source of strength, and there is no might or power except with Him.
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Refusing intimacy with husband due to infidelity
Question: A married man with four children engages in immoral acts, even recording them on his phone. One of his friends sent a video of him to his wife, who then refused to engage in intimacy with him, fearing disease transmission. She did not seek divorce, wishing to stay with her children to protect them from corruption.
What's the advice?
Sheikh ’Abdulhameed…
Beneficial Resources On Marriage
1. The Book of Marriage | Sheikh Salih As-Salih (8 lectures)
https://www.spreaker.com/show/2763755
2. The Process of Getting Married According to the Legislated Proofs | Abu Rayhanah 'Abdul-Hakeem
https://www.spreaker.com/episode/41991134
3. Guidelines to Marriage | Abu Ayyub Yusuf bin Muhammad
https://www.spreaker.com/user/masjidimammuqbil/guidelines-to-marriage
4. The Marriage…
The Marriage Meeting
Sheikh Ibn Baz, may Allāh have mercy on him, outlined the conditions under which it is permissible to look at a potential spouse, stating:
"The conditions permitting a man to look at a woman are six:
1⃣. No Privacy: The interaction must not be in seclusion.
2⃣. No Desire: The gaze must be free from desire; if he looks with desire, it becomes prohibited, as the purpose of looking is to gain…
Ruling on Dolls for Young Girls
Question: What is the ruling on selling toys with images, and is it permissible for us to buy them for children since they are not religiously accountable? Can the example of Aishah playing with dolls be used as a justification?
Sheikh Abu ’Amr ’AbdulKareem Al-Hajoori ḥafidhahullāh:
Images are prohibited for sale, purchase, and possession, based on many evidences. Such as the…
My Wife is Righteous, But I Feel She Brings Me Misfortune
Question: He says he has a wife who is a student of knowledge, pious, and committed—praise be to Allāh. However, he feels that she has brought him misfortune; since their marriage, he has been afflicted with calamities.
Sheikh Abdulhameed Az-Zu'kari ḥafidhahullāh:
This is from Shaytan. When the Prophet ﷺ said that "ill-omen is found in three things: a…
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Impermissiblity of Exposing One's Awrah During Henna Application And Using Substances That Hinder Water from Reaching the Skin
Question: There is a woman who works in applying henna designs on the hands and feet of women, and everyone prefers using خضاب (a type of dye) over henna. Is she committing a sin if she uses خضاب, and is it permissible for her to apply it up to the thigh, given that she has no other means…
Who Is Responsible for Paying Zakah on Borrowed Gold?
A woman says: I have gold belonging to my sister that I wear, and I will return it in the future when I get married. Is the Zakah my responsibility or hers?
Sheikh ’Adnān Al-Maṣqari ḥafidhahullāh:
The Zakat is the responsibility of the owner of the gold. Zakat is due on the one who owns the gold, unless she cooperates with her sister and [voluntarily] pays…
Is Khul’ a Type of Divorce (طلاق) or Termination (فسخ)?
The majority of scholars classify khul' as a form of طلاق (divorce), while Imam Ahmad follows the opinion of Ibn Abbas and Ikrimah, viewing it as فسخ (termination). This latter perspective appears to be more accurate, and Allah knows best. This is because when Allah mentioned divorce twice in the verse {الطلاق مرتان}, khul' was referenced immediately…
Khul’ Is Not Subject to Time Restrictions Unlike Divorce
This is supported by the general permissibility indicated in Allāh's words:
﴿فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَیۡهِمَا فِیمَا ٱفۡتَدَتۡ بِهِ﴾
"There is no blame if the wife compensates the husband to obtain separation." [Surah Al-Baqarah: 229]
This view is held by the majority of scholars, though Mālik held a differing opinion.
Al-Baghawi, may Allāh have mercy on him,…
Reconciliation of a Woman with Her Husband After Separation through Khul’
Question: If a woman has separated from her husband through khul‘ (divorce initiated by the wife), is she allowed to return to him?
Sheikh Abu ’Amr ’Abdulkareem Al-Hajoori ḥafidhahullāh:
If the reason for separation was not due to his religiosity, such as negligence in prayer, engaging in innovations, or persistent sinful behaviour; if…
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She Wants to Leave Her Husband Due to His Mistreatment and Lack of Trust
Question: A woman is seeking your advice. She says that her husband is suspicious and does not trust her. He has prevented her from visiting her uncles' house and makes things difficult when staying at home. He only prays in the masjid on Fridays, physically abuses his mother and sisters, and shows no respect for her family. She is now at her…
Permissibility of Father and Son Marrying a Mother and Her Daughter Respectively
Question: My father married a woman who has a daughter—am I allowed to marry her daughter?
Sheikh Rashād Adh-Dhali'ee ḥafidhahullāh:
Yes, you are allowed to marry her. Since your father married a woman other than your mother who has a daughter from a previous marriage, her daughter is unrelated to you. Therefore, the father may…
Praying for a Deceased Woman to Be Granted a Better Husband
Question: If the deceased is a woman, is it appropriate to supplicate for her with the following:
اللهم أبدلها زوجا خيرا من زوجها
"O Allāh, grant her a husband better than her (worldly) husband"?
Sheikh Rashād Adh-Dhali'ee ḥafidhahullāh:
Yes, it is appropriate to supplicate for her with that. The meaning of this supplication is to ask Allāh to grant…
Permissibility of Migration Without a Mahram
Question: A 20-year-old unmarried Muslim woman lives with her non-Muslim mother and grandmother in a shared home which also houses a dog. In her city there are few Muslims so she wishes to move to another city where there are more Muslims and stronger support. However, she does not have a male guardian (mahram) to accompany her.
Sheikh Abdulhameed Az-Zu'kari…
A Knowledgeable Woman Leading an Unlearned Man in Prayer
Question: If a woman is a scholar, is she allowed to lead her husband and sons in prayer at home?
Sheikh ’Abdulhameed Az-Zu'kari ḥafidhahullāh
If she has memorised the Qur’an with all ten recitations and has mastered its Tafsir, and has memorised the major collections of ḥadīth, including Musnad Ahmad, it is still not permissible for her to lead her son,…
"If a man says to his wife, You are divorced three times on the condition that you give me one thousand (currency), but she does not give him the thousand, then she is not divorced. This is similar to
However, in this case, it seems there was a misunderstanding regarding the necessity of witness presence for the validity of khulʿ. As mentioned earlier, such a condition is not required, and you effectively completed the khulʿ by agreeing to and signing the document.
A final key aspect is if, through her attempts to retrieve the document or her statements, she indicated that she no longer desired separation before…
Question:
My wife and I had a difficult week, and I avoided talking to her to prevent saying something I might regret out of anger. To prompt me to sit down and discuss the issue, my wife mentioned khulʿ.
Initially, I thought she was serious about khulʿ, so I told her I would only consider it valid if it were in writing, signed by both of us in front of two witnesses. I did this to delay the process, hoping she…
