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13 June 2025 โข 1.98K views
The Necessity of Gender Mixing in แนฌawฤf and Saสฟฤซ Is Not a Basis for Permitting Free Mixing in General
The questioner asks: Some people try to philosophise the issue of freemixing, claiming that it is permissible and allowed based on the mixing that occurs during แนญawฤf in Al-Masjid Al-แธคarฤm, as well as certain gatherings of the Prophet ๏ทบ in which it is understood that men and women may have been present together based on the saying of Allฤh Almighty: โThe believing men and believing women are allies of one anotherโ [At-Tawbah: 71]. How should we respond to such claims?
Sheikh โUthaymeen rahimahullah:
The response: We say that the texts of the Qur'ฤn and Sunnah are of two types:
(1) Definitive (muแธฅkam), and
(2) ambiguous (mutashฤbih).
The approach of those firmly grounded in knowledge is to interpret the ambiguous in light of the definitive, so that the entire body of evidence remains definitive.
When we find texts clearly showing that the Islamic Shari'ah encourages the separation of men and women, then any other texts that might appear to indicate the permissibility of mixing are to be understood as ambiguous and must be interpreted in context โ as applying to specific cases where no harm arises.
It is well known that it is not feasible to (completely) separate men and women during แนญawฤf. If we were to separate them by time โ saying, for example, that women perform แนญawฤf during the day and men during the night, or vice versa โ this would cause significant difficulty. Women are accompanied by their maแธฅram, and what is he to do if told that his woman folk may only perform แนญawฤf at night while he has to travel? What would he do in such a case? Additionally, when the allocated time ends and one group begins to exit while the other enters, this itself would lead to mixing.
If we attempted separation by space โ saying, for example, that the area closest to the Kaสฟbah is for women, and the outer areas for men, or the reverse โ then again, mixing would be inevitable as people move in and out of the area.
Therefore, the mixing that occurs during แนญawฤf is a necessity and unavoidable. However, it is extremely unlikely that anyone would be led to fitnah in such a setting. This is because the context is one of worship. The idea that a person would be drawn to fitnah in this situation is far-fetched โ unless Allฤh has caused that personโs heart to deviate, and we seek refuge with Him from that.