𝗪𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻'𝘀 𝗕𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗳𝗶𝘁𝘀 (48)

Be a New Wife Everyday! People naturally become bored with the worldly life, even if they were in a state of happiness; and this boredom only comes from the absence of renewal and change. So do not allow your husband's heart to become bored with you by always having the same look, wearing the same clothing, or cooking the same food. Rather be versatile according to your ability. If you see him pleased with a particular outfit, meal, or behavior, don't bore him with these things by being monotonous in carrying them out. Rather, wear the outfit that he likes and cook his favorite meal once in a while, but not all the time; perhaps in the future you won't know what else to do to gain his pleasure. This draws him closer to you, making his heart actively love you. It is a bad habit for a woman to notice that her husband likes a particular outfit that she wears, so she wears it night and day until he dislikes it. Or, for example, she notices a particular food he favors, so she prepares it for him on every occasion until it's no longer his favorite meal. Or, maybe, she sees that he likes a particular behavior of hers, so she repeats it constantly, until he dislikes her because of it. Rather, it is intelligent for the wife to store those things that her husband is fond of, doing them once in a while, making her husband happy when she presents them in front of him, and causing him to yearn for them in their absence. To rejuvenate yourself for your husband with the simple things is much more preferable than to over burden yourself by buying expensive items. For indeed some women, due to their corrupt intellect think that rejuvenation is to purchase clothing all the time, until the point where the closets overflow. Some women even think that rejuvenation is to throw away furniture and buy new furniture more than once in a year with the claim of remodeling the house, while other women extravagantly buy food and drink. Indeed all of this is wastefulness and leads to earning the displeasure of Ar-Rahman, the Most Merciful, before the displeasure of your husband. Realise, oh sister, the Moon is the same each month; however, it still rejuvenates its appearance after having been absent. It continues to grasp the amazement of onlookers and is always being used as a metaphor. So be like the Moon. ➡️@womensbenefits