𝗪𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻'𝘀 𝗕𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗳𝗶𝘁𝘀 (249)

Is It Permissible for a Man to Travel with His Wife and Leave Her Alone in Another Country, or Must He Stay with Her? Sheikh Yahya ḥafidhahullāh (paraphrased): There is no issue with this as long as there is proper care and attention, and they are left in a safe and secure environment. It is common for people to travel and leave their families behind in their countries or elsewhere, provided they are safe. However, the absence should not be prolonged, whether the man is in his own country or elsewhere. The Prophet ﷺ advised: ((إِذَا قَضَى نَهْمَتَهُ فَلْيُعَجِّلْ إِلَى أَهْلِهِ)) "Once a man has fulfilled his needs (through travelling), he should hasten back to his family." But if the guardian leaves them there and returns or travels elsewhere, and leaves her to do as she pleases without any supervision, allowing her to go out night day, visit markets, or go to the Haram alone, this this is incorrect; as this would expose her to potential risks. The world is filled with temptations, and the Haram is crowded. There are also many dangers, so she should not be left to fend for herself. Particularly if he leaves them in a hotel, which involves free-mixing with others, it is not acceptable for them to be left in such environments without proper supervision. The discussion here applies to leaving them in a safe and secure place. As for leaving them in a hotel and then travelling to another country, leaving them unsupervised for days or months, this would be considered negligence and carelessness. In such cases, the family would need food and provisions, so who is going to provide this? It's either she goes out to the market herself or arrange for food delivery. This situation could lead to many potential harms, and thus it is not appropriate. @womensbenefits