A wise relative (uncle, maternal uncle)

An imam of a local mosque Let him speak to your father calmly, as fathers often accept advice more easily from others than from their daughters. 3) If the Refusal Continues If it becomes clear that he rejects every suitable man of good religion and character for worldly reasons: This is considered ‘adhl (unjust prevention). Guardianship may then transfer to the next closest relative (uncle, grandfather, etc.), or to a judge / Islamic authority. In America ⤵️ Contact a reliable Islamic centre. They usually have experience in such matters and can help reconcile or assume guardianship if needed. 4) Very Important Do not marry secretly or without a valid guardian. Do not make a rushed decision due to pressure or fear. 5) Regarding Your Age (17) Your father is partly considering your age, which does carry some weight. 🔹Therefore:🔹 Be patient until 18 if possible, While continuing your efforts with wisdom. 6) The Required Balance Preserve your religion Do not lose your family if possible Do not compromise on religion and character ◾ Conclusion You are right in seeking a righteous husband. Your father is wrong if he prevents you for racist or non-Islamic reasons. But the correct path is ⤵️ wisdom + mediation + gradual steps + turning to a legitimate authority when needed. May Allah grant you a righteous spouse and bring harmony between you and your parents upon goodness. https://t.me/EngFatawaboxes_9_9_9_Bot