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Protect Children from Sexual Abuse 🚨 What Is Sexual Abuse? Sexual abuse refers to any act of a sexual nature imposed on a child or adolescent without their consent. It may be committed by an adult or by another child. Sexual abuse falls into two main categories: 🔴 First Type: Physical Contact This includes inappropriate kissing, improper hugging, touching a child’s private parts, or attempting to engage in sexual acts. 🔴 Second Type: Non-Contact Abuse This includes forcing a child to view pornographic images, videos, or scenes, engaging the child in sexually explicit conversations, or sending inappropriate romantic or sexual messages, words, or offensive images and stickers. ▪️ All children, regardless of their social or economic background, may be vulnerable to abuse. 🚨 What Does a Child Abuser Look Like? In many cases, an abuser does not appear suspicious and may be someone trusted in the child’s life. The abuser may be: 🔴 A man or a woman 🔴 An adult, an adolescent, or even a child 🔴 A stranger, a family member, or a close friend They may appear completely normal in daily life—married, with children, and known for having a good reputation. 🚨 Can One Child Abuse Another Child? Yes. The abuser may be: 🔴 An older adolescent 🔴 A child who has authority or influence over younger children Sometimes, the adolescent who commits abuse is themselves a victim of previous abuse. However, this does not mean that every victim will become an abuser in the future. In such cases, both parties should receive psychological and social support and appropriate rehabilitation. 🚨 How Can You Protect Your Children from Sexual Abuse? Awareness is the first line of defense 1️⃣ Be alert to warning signs. Maintain communication with the school, caregivers, or babysitters. Do not blindly trust anyone with your child; excessive trust can sometimes place a child at greater risk, and regret will not undo harm. 2️⃣ Get to know the people in your child’s life. Encourage your child to speak openly and confidently with you about who they spend time with, what they do together, and what topics are discussed. 3️⃣ Teach your child about privacy and boundaries. Make it clear that they have the right to refuse any unwanted touch, even from adults. No one is allowed to touch their private parts or kiss them inappropriately. 4️⃣ Explain the difference between a “safe secret” and a “dangerous secret.” Teach your child that any secret they are asked to keep from their parents must be disclosed immediately. No one has the right to say, “Do not tell your parents.” Make it clear that such behavior is wrong. 5️⃣ Teach your child the correct names for body parts and emphasise that their body belongs to them alone. Physical greetings should be limited to appropriate gestures such as a handshake. 6️⃣ Reassure your child that they will never be punished for telling you about anything uncomfortable or inappropriate. Repeatedly remind them: “My child, never stay silent. If anyone says inappropriate or disturbing words to you, tell me immediately, and you will not be punished.” Source: https://t.me/AboBaraaAhmad/495 #tarbiyah@masjidsahabah