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🌿 Closing Words of Advice

1 August 2025 • 2.36K views
➡️To the Hosts of Sisters-Only Events: As the organisers, you absolutely have the right to set a 'no-niqab' policy for your event. However, if you choose to implement this, it's important to do so with care, wisdom, and consideration. Here are a few suggestions: Be gentle in your approach: A polite, respectful reminder at the door can go a long way. If a sister seems hesitant, speak to her with kindness — she may have a valid reason, and it’s always best to ask before insisting. Create a safe and comfortable environment: That means removing the causes of concern: no photography, ensure CCTV cameras are off or covered, and make sure the women’s area is properly segregated so no men can access it or peak in. Mind the age of children present: Boys over the age of 7 or 8 shouldn’t be in the sisters’ section — out of respect for the comfort and privacy of the women attending. ➡️ To the Sisters Attending: If the hosts kindly ask for niqabs to be removed, and there’s no genuine reason to keep it on, just go with it. Cooperation helps everyone feel at ease and keeps the gathering positive. But if you really can’t remove it and know it might stir unnecessary tension, it’s okay to sit this one out and benefit from home — there’s reward in that too. ➡️ To the Husbands: We all care deeply for our women, and having ghayrah is part of our deen. But it’s not wise to send your wife to events where face-veils are discouraged, and then insist she keeps it on because of your personal discomfort. If you don’t trust the setting, it may be better for her not to attend than to place her in that difficult position.