𝗞𝗵𝗮𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗿𝗮𝗵 (53)

The Value of True Brotherhood Sheikh Sulayman Ar-Ruhayli hafidhahullah said: Part of good companionship is that a person pays attention to the feelings and situations of their friends, keeps their hearts at ease, and avoids anything that could harm the friendship. So, brothers, it is good manners that if you do something that might be misunderstood, you should explain it to your friends. If you do something for your friend that they might take the wrong way, then clarify it for them. And if you fear it may hurt their feelings, then apologise and explain your reason. It is also from good manners that if you notice something from your friend that affects your feelings toward them, that you ask them about it politely. This is a high level of good character, and it helps preserve friendship and keep our place in each other’s hearts. The Prophet (peace be upon him), when he noticed a change in As-Sa'b's face, he explained himself and clarified his reason. So we should take care, brothers, to protect our brotherhood. Brotherhood for the sake of Allah is more valuable than treasures. If there is a friendship upon the Sunnah, they should protect it. If one of them does something and fears it may hurt his brother’s feelings, he should quickly explain himself and reassure him. And if one of us sees something in his brother that affects his heart or lowers his regard for him, he should ask politely until his doubts are cleared and the brotherhood is preserved. Brothers, true brotherhood for the sake of Allah is a treasure, and it is rare today. Many people say, “I love you for the sake of Allah,” but few are truly sincere. Few have a love in their hearts that is truly for Allah—caring for you and wanting for you what they want for themselves. If you find such a person, hold on to them tightly. A friend who loves you for the sake of Allah, teaches you, guides you to good, and advises you when you fall short—this is more valuable than any treasure. Hold on to such a friend. Not the one who only makes you laugh and passes time without truly caring about you. If you find a sincere brother who loves you for the sake of Allah, then protect that bond and that brotherhood—this is among the best of character. Source: https://t.me/khawaaaaatir/89