Relationships that diminish your worth
2 February 2026 • 1.15K views

Allāh says:
{وَلَا يَلْتَفِتْ مِنكُمْ أَحَدٌ}
And let no one among you look back. [Surah Hud 11:81]
Treat relationships that have ended as if they are graves, and graves are not to be exhumed!
Whoever has become "behind your back" [in the past], then leave him behind your back. Do not be a prisoner of your past, and do not leave the door slightly ajar lest it tempt you to return.
Battles that yield no benefit only exhaust you, so turn your back! Friendships that diminish your worth are not necessary for you, so learn how to part ways!
Places that kill the passion within you only extinguish your light, so learn how to depart!
Always remember that you have a destination you must reach; for indeed, the one who keeps looking back never arrives.
Shaykh Saleem Al-Hilaali
Source: t.me/Insightful_Couples/209