Make sure to educate your family just as you make sure to feed them

‘Amr ibn Qays رحمه الله said: إنَّ المرأة لتُخاصم زوجها يوم القيامة عند الله ، فتقول: إنه كانَ لا يُؤدِّبُني ولا يُعلِّمُني شيئًا ، كان يأتيني بخُبز السُّوق. “Indeed, the woman will surely argue against her husband on the Day of Judgement in front of Allāh. She will say: ‘He never used to discipline me nor teach me anything. He would (just) come to me with bread from the market.’” [Tafsīr as-Sam’ānī 5/475]