The point being, sometimes a kind word is all it takes, you don't even need to lift a finger.

Example 3. Order her takeaway every now and then. Maybe once a week, like Fridays. Example 4. Go to her occasionally when she's busy with her chores, give her a kiss on the neck, massage her shoulders and show how much you appreciate her. Note: although it's good to be affectionate to one another infront of the kids, you must be careful not to go overboard by kissing on the lips, fondling, using inappropriate language, etc. 7. Call her using beautiful names and praise her often. Praise her food, her looks, taste, etc. 8. Buy her simple gifts like chocolate cookies, crisps, milkshake, ice cream, perfume, etc., and if she demands that you prove your love by buying gold or expensive beauty accessories, respond to her with these lines of poetry: وما الحلى إلا زينة لنقيصة ... يتمم من حسن إذا الحسن قصرا Jewellery is only an adornment for one with flaws ... It compensates for beauty if (one's) beauty is lacking فأما إذا كان الجمال موفراً ... فحسنك لم يحتج إلى أن يزورا But if beauty exists in abundance (like in your case) ... then your beauty does not need to be forged 9. Look good & smell good for your wife. Spray perfume on the bed before bedtime, especially on the pillows. 10. 𝗨𝘀𝗲 𝗵𝘂𝗺𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 The Prophet ﷺ said: (( إِنِّي لَأَمْزَحُ ، وَلَا أَقُولُ إِلَّا حَقًّا)) “I joke, but I do not say except what is true.” [Jaami' Al-Kabeer & Al-Awsat of At-Tabarani, graded (Saheeh) by Sheikh Albani in Saheeh Al-Jami' (2494)] Examples: When your wife says, “I was a fool when I married you.” You should say, “I was in love with you so I didn't really notice.” [A man asked his wife what she wanted for ’Eid. She said, Nothing would make me happier than a diamond necklace.” So he bought her nothing.] A wife says to her husband, our kids are spoilt. He responds, “All kids smell like that.” [A husband asked his wife if she ever fantasizes about him. She said yes. She fantasizes about him taking out the trash, mowing the lawn, and doing the dishes.] [Before marriage, a man yearns for the woman he loves. After marriage, the "y" becomes silent.] [Every time you talk to your wife, your mind should remember that, 'This conversation will be recorded for Training and Quality purposes.] [It's been a very emotional day, even the cake is in tiers.] [Arguing with your wife is like reading the Terms & conditions. At the end, you just give up agree.] [In every shop there are two kinds of people: those who want to go home and those who don't. The trouble is, they are usually married to each other.] “I'm done talking. Let's have a wrestling match.” Push her gently onto the bed, then hug and kiss her on the cheek/neck. 11. 𝗘𝗻𝗴𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗳𝗹𝗶𝗿𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘄𝗶𝗳𝗲 - it's halaal! Examples: [I need you like a heart needs a beat] [Thinking of you keeps me awake. Dreaming of you keeps me asleep. Being with you keeps me alive.] [To the rest of the world you may be one person, but to me you are the world] [The moment I saw you I fell in love with you] Whisper in her hear, “You are the best woman a man could ever have.” 12. 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘄𝗶𝗳𝗲'𝘀 𝗲𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝘀𝘄𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀, especially when she's on her period. This is where marital discords often sets in. 'Ā'ishah raḍhiyallāhu ’anhā said: “I would drink from a vessel when I was on my period, then hand it to the Prophet ﷺ, and he would put his mouth where mine had been and drink; and I would nibble meat from a bone, when I was on my period, then hand it to the Prophet ﷺ, and he would put his mouth where mine had been.” [Bukhāri & Muslim] She also said raḍhiyallāhu ’anhā: “The Prophet ﷺ used to recite the Qur'an with his head in my lap while I was on my period.” [Al-Bukhari].