If you said No to a righteous brother simply because he:

- doesn't shape up his beard - doesn't wear designer clothing - doesn't want to remain in the lands of disbelief - doesn't want you to continue with your uni studies due to free-mixing, students loans, etc. - is not earning a six figure income - is not athletically built - is not from a noble tribe - wants you to wear a face veil .... I counsel you based on the hadeeth of Fatimah to reconsider your preferences Similarly, if you said No to a righteous sister simply because she: - doesn't have long curly hair - big hazel eyes - doesn't have bright, pearly white teeth - doesn't have large hips - was previously divorced - doesn't have a sweet voice - doesn't have a good sense of humour - is short and chubby - doesn't want you taking pictures of yourself, let alone sharing them on social media ... I counsel you to reconsider your preferences ((طاعة الله وطاعة رسوله خير لك))